Ceremony


We’re having two ceremonies! The first one already happened, on June 1, 2018, in Douala. So we’re half married?! But we couldn’t finish tying the knot without the rest of you, so our second ceremony will be later this year in Chicago:

October 20, 2018
4 pm

In the Solarium at the
South Shore Cultural Center

↤ The ceremony will be in the Solarium.

↧ Our traditional Bamileke ceremony took place at the home of Xavier Tankou, Jo’an’s father, in Douala, Cameroon. Check out the pictures!

Reception


Our traditional wedding in Douala was followed by a crazy party with lots of dancing. We’ll be reprising the energy and excitement in Chicago, if not quite the length—we closed down the party at 6 am. This just means we’ll have to party even harder to squeeze it all in!

The reception will start shortly after the ceremony ends, just down the hall in the Dining Room. We’ll have stations of food positioned around the room, so you can eat and drink, mix and mingle, and most importantly, celebrate!

October 20, 2018
5:30 pm

In the Dining Room at the
South Shore Cultural Center

↦ The Dining Room may look like a staid, classical affair, but the party in it will be anything but. ↧

Travel


Chicago has two airports, Midway and O’Hare, both of which are an easy ‘L’ ride to the Loop. Or if you want to embrace its railroad history, you can travel to Chicago on Amtrak, which will drop you right next to downtown. But since the South Shore Cultural Center is not in downtown, you have a choice to make about where to stay, depending on how long you’ll be in Chicago and what else you plan to do while here.

Stay in the LoopThe simplest option is to stay downtown. It has the best transit connections to the rest of the city and the most things to do right at your fingertips. But to get to the wedding from the Loop, you’ll need to travel. Depending on your mode, it should take 15 to 45 minutes.

Congress Plaza Hotel ‣ We have a discounted block of rooms at the Congress Plaza Hotel, a classic Chicago hotel on Michigan Avenue overlooking Grant Park and the lake. Call their reservation department before September 7, and let them know you’re with the Tankou-Foreman Wedding: 312-427-3800 ext. 5025 or 800-635-1666. Even if it’s after September 7, they might still have discounted rooms available.

If the Congress Plaza isn’t for you, there are dozens of other options. Here are a few lower-priced places that you might find interesting:

  • Found Chicago, in River North—just north of downtown—has a mix of private and shared rooms.
  • FieldHouse Jones, in Near North—just north of River North—has lots of room configurations, including private rooms with a variety of bed setups, suites, and shared rooms.
  • HI Chicago is a highly rated hostel right around the corner from the Congress Plaza Hotel.
  • Airbnb has options in the Loop and throughout the city.

Stay in Hyde ParkIf you want to stay closer to the South Shore Cultural Center, your best bet is Hyde Park. To be sure, it’s still at least a 45-minute walk, but that’s about the closest you can get, unless you book an Airbnb or something along those lines.

Hyde Park doesn’t have many hotels, but here are a few options: Sophy Hyde Park, Hyatt Place, and La Quinta.

Get to South Shore The South Shore Cultural Center is at 7059 S. South Shore Drive, at the corner of 71st Street. Although the ‘L’, often the best way around Chicago, does not come anywhere close—it’s an hour walk to the nearest station—the #6 bus and Metra Electric both stop right in front of the Cultural Center. If those modes of transit aren’t your cup of tea, you could ride a Divvy, but your best bet is probably to drive or take a Lyft, Uber, or taxi. There’s a metered parking lot on the grounds of the Cultural Center: $2 per hour until 9 pm, then $1 per hour from 9 to 11.

What Else to Do When you’re not at our wedding, there are so many things to see and do in Chicago that any partial list will miss lots of great options. But here are a few ideas near the South Shore Cultural Center that you might find interesting.

Registry


Your presence at our wedding is the gift we most want. But if you’re inclined to give more, we set up a honeymoon registry with a twist. For each piece of our honeymoon, we selected a charity to which we’ll give half of whatever we receive. In some cases, you might notice a connection between the charity and the item. But for most of them, we just think the organization does good work, making the world that we’re blessed to be able to explore a better place.

Questions?

  • What’s the dress code?
Dressy casual—suits and ties, sport coats, dresses. Above all else, make sure you can dance in whatever you wear. As for weather conditions, Chicago in late October is usually pretty temperate, though it can be cool at night, with highs in the low to mid 60s (16-18 c) and lows in the mid 40s (7-8 c). But since both the ceremony and reception will be indoors, the weather shouldn’t be a big concern anyway.

  • What’s the best way to get to the South Shore Cultural Center?
That will depend on where you’re coming from, but there are several different ways to get there.

  • How did you two meet?
As Maine is the closest U.S. state to Cameroon, it might seem like our meeting was inevitable. But in fact, we met the old fashioned way: on the internet, although we had an assist in the form of two Northwestern Med School docs, who, unbeknownst to them, were the mutual friends that catalyzed our first conversation.

  • Where are you standing in the background photo on your website?
We’re standing on a black sand beach in Limbe, on Andy’s first trip to Cameroon in 2015 and Jo’an’s first return after a long time away!

  • What else is there to do in Chicago?
Wow, that’s a question! It might be easier to list what there isn’t to do in Chicago. But we’ve put together a short list of ideas near the South Shore Cultural Center.